I have a problem which I'm very embarrassed of, it feels so awkward that I can't go to visit a dr. I'm scared about it and I would like to get some answers if possible please. I have a lump right in my anus, even a little more than a lump and it's soft. I don't know what's in there but it hurts when I wipe, or even when I sit or walk. I dnk what to do about it and how to make it disappear, but I would like to know it so bad. Nobody ever had something similar and treated it? It's all skin around it feels so embarrassing having it. Please let me know at least how to lower the pain and that's enough, because of its location nobody ever will notice it. Help