Masturbating with friends? Anyone?

[donnie]

Well, hello... I'm new on this forum and I have a question, I just need to know your opinion on this. Well, my best friend and I usually have sleep overs and watch porn together... I don't know how it all started but now it is something we already got used to... We're both 16 years old and I, personally, don't consider and don't feel myself gay. I don't know how this is happening, maybe I'm just really weird? This is happening when we tell each other we have boners and showed each other our penises becuase we are curious, or I don't know. Lately, we have masturbated togehter many times while we were watching porn. I don't know what happened one day but we have done it each other. I know it sounds really gay and that is why I'm concerned right now. I'm just really curious if most straight people do this? or at least someone? as you can understand I can't answer this question someone who knows me. You know what I mean. That is why I'm here. So....??

 

 

[E Billson]

Well, I think it is normal and most men are curious because it is human nature. I personally, can't even imagine the conversation with a friend about jacking together and I'd probably would feel "strange" if I'd tried it, but it is just me. Everyone is different.

For example I had a friend who said that did this often when he was in high school with his friend. I would say that if you enjoy it and your friend too then it is no problem, you don't harm anyone. He is no gay or bi sexual but even if he was then let it be, the same thing apply to you. If you let your friend jacking you off it is a little different level, but if it is fun to both of you then what problems could you have?

It doesn't make you gay if you're not feeling it, it is just something you were curious. Only if you feel that you have attraction to you friend, if you feel that you're gay then you're gay and once again, it is not a problem. If I'm not doing it with my friend it doesn't make me any better person than you, remember that.

 

[JackSon9]

Well, I'm sorry but I don't really think that this is normal... to masturbate each other two male friends it takes to a whole new level and within few weeks for doing it and here the desire for sex appears. I don't think that this is something normal but if it's okay to you then there's nothing bad. I just want to say that this isn't common (if it was I would hear about something like this) for straight people so let's face that this is gay. As I said it's nothing bad or something like that, it's just not okay for straight people it is for those who are comfortable doing this... yes, for gay people. I'm not telling this with bad intentions and I'm not judging anyone, everybody is free in taking their decision, I'm just trying to be real. I can understand curiosity if masturbating, for example, in the same room watching pornography or something like that, but touching each other it's not gay? If he likes this activity then let him do it because I have nothing to worry about I'm just trying to answer his question. I'm sorry if I insulted someone, it wasn't my intention.

 

[Strien]

Sorry JackSon, but I think you don’t understand few facts and you should reconsider what are you saying. Homosexualism is the desire, loving, and attraction to the members only of your own gender, I mean homosexualism is the desire to have sex with them, with the members of you own gender only BUT masturbation (mutual or not) is definitely not sex. Masturbation has nothing to do with sex, therefore it has nothing to do with homosexualism. Someone can be considered a homosexual only if he or she wants to be in love with them, to have sex with them and to be attracted by the members of the same gender. In case that Donnie do not want and are not in love with his friends then there’s nothing to do with homosexualism. It doesn’t matter if they’ve masturbated together, or even touched each other’s penises. As long as they didn’t get furher having sex and so on, they’re not to be considered homosexuals. They can be considered homosexuals even if they never had sexual intercourse only if they are attracted to each other, if they are not, then do the math. I don’t know their story in particular, but I do know such men who had mutual masturbation and I know that most of these men have girlfriends (some of them even families and children) and all this is proving that all they are a person attracted of the opposite gender. I know that those men do not have absolutely any attraction to members of the same gender. They never had sex and so on, they are happy dating and having sex with females.Some people are doing it because it’s fun, some are doing it because they are curious and I don’t think that we should judge them!