My husband is sucking my breast milk

[ninaflemming]

Hey everybody, I am new here please help, I know that it sounds gross but this is the way I unintetionally found to do away with engorgement.

 

My story starts when my first children was used to drink a lot of my breast milk so I was producing a lot of it. After he finished sucking my breast my nippels always were sore and it felt sooo terrible and whenever he didn't eat enough I felt some kind of strange uncomfort - but it passed. Now I have a beautiful little princess and she doesn't suck so much milk like my son did (I think that's because my first was a boy and the girl isn't sucking so much) but I produce the same amount of milk I used to with him (I'm afraid that even a little more). Now I literally felt like I have two over filled balloons in front of me that can explode any minute and it hurts like hell. Here starts the part where I'm a little ashamed but that's the only solution that help me: my husband saw me in all that pain I was and he said that he could help me by sucking it if I'd let him, so I gave it a try. It seemed unbelievable but it felt very good, maybe it's a gross thing but it even turned me on. It really felt very good so please do not judge me for this and it really helped me too: I don't feel anymore the pain and the over filled balloons that gave me so much uncomfort.

 

My questions are: can it hurt someone? my baby girl or my husband? I heard that breast milk cures cancer among other things, but I'm a little afraid about it, should I? and I would also like to know if this is a normal thing for you? or not so good? are the another couples enjoying this or we are really pervent?

 

[looley]

hey Nina, in my opinion it's ok for you and you husband as long as you have a good relationship and you don't leave your children without breast feed. you just need to make sure you stop this activity when comes the time and your children needs to be weaned, otherwise i assume that you know you will continue to produce milk which i'm not sure it's going to be good already. also, i truly doubt that breast milk have properties of healing cancer, all the world would know this if it were true. however it does provides nutrients for your children, so i'm not sure, but therefore it should help your husband too. moreover, breast feeding is an intimate thing so probably that's why you two love this process. as soon as this activity doesn't lead to any innappropiate and abnormal things and you know when you should stop, it's perfectly safe. so enjoy it and have a healthy family )))))

 

[alonso]

NO you're not pervent at all and though you think that a lot of people would say "ew" to that this activity is a lot more common as you can imagine. I read somewhere some years ago, in a study where said that 68% of husbands drink or at least tastes their wife breasts milk, even though I think that there's more because those are only the couples brave enough to admit this fact! so think by yourself. I personally drink my wife's breast milk when she is having troubles similar to yours and we NEVER had a problem with this LOL. Also there's no way that this can hurt yourself or your husband, now when I've read looley's post I understand that really it can help us. Women doesn't suffer in pains and men are provided with nutrients - it makes sense. This is a temporary solution for some problems and there's nothing to worry about! have a nice day and good luck!

 

[Suffes]

Well, in my opinion the milk you are producing just provide antibodies and nutrients to your baby ONLY and to your husband too, I really doubt that it provides antibodies and nutrients for an elder, adult person though I'm not very sure 'bout that. In case you're producing way too much milk and it's such a big problem than it hurts you then I recommend that you may advise a specialist doctor about it, I think that it is going to be much better and the doctor is able to find for you a solution because I'm sure that you're not alone with this problem. Really. It is going to be much better for you to consult a doctor first. I understand that you may be a little embarrassed but you shouldn't since it is a problem, doctors are there for finding a solutin! It may be that the temporary solution what you provide is also good but who really knows if not a doctor? Remember that forum is about giving your opinion and people who claim that it is perfectly normal doesn't have any degrees or specialized knowledge so you better take care and ask who really knows how to help you. It's only my opinion though but you decide.

 

[cupidisdead]

Honestly, I don’t understand how this can be see perverted in absolutely any way. Why would it be? Why would somebody have a problem with that? that is what you are making milk for humans. In my opinion it is much more like a double standard or something. We are having sex in order to make some new humans and then, the bodies of those mothers are in a way able to feed those humans. Why are we not having sex with animals in order to suck their milk then??? I one have never had tasted or in a way tried the milk of the mothers but I am sure that there would be some medical advantages of doing it that is why, sometimes I do wonder and I can say that I want to try it out. Maybe someday I will.