anal sex bad effects

[Daithis]

hey people, I am concerned about bad effects of anal sex it can have. my boyfriend always wants it and he always asks me for doing it but I am a little scared it could damange my health or my body somehow. could you please describe all effects it can have? I dont know what to do plz help

 

[brigittekey]

Many women relate that they often enjoy anal sex but it DOES have some bad effects that you should consider if you decide doing it. Anal sex doesn't expose only you at health damange risk, but as well as your partner. I will try to describe you two most common and pricipal dangers.

 

The bad effect it can have only on your body is the physical damange that can be done to your anus and as well as your rectum. They are fragile parts of your body that can be easily be damaged when is an insertion of large objects. However adequate lubrication and preparation reduces the risk of physical trauma, so I suggest you to use them at least for the first time if you are still interested in doing it. 

 

Furthermore, as I already said, there is something that can affect both of you and that's infections.  due to the high number of infectious microorganisms not found elsewhere on the human body. You both are under risk of sexually transmitted diseases because anus has a easily torn tissue. Again, the use of ample lubrication reduce the risk of tearing, but it doesn't give you maximum protection. You could use a condom too.

 

It's very good that you decided to inform yourself before doing it because nowadays young persons without the knowledge about risks and safety measures do anal sex and increasing the number of sexually transmitted infections.

 

[Bried]

Well... Ok... I'm going to try to explain this. What brigittekey has explained is from a profesional point of view, I guess... However I'm going to explain this to you from my own experience so I hope it's going to help you out. So, I'm not sexually active right know due to no sexual partners but me and my ex were doing this activity almost daily for more than 4 months.

 

Well...I personally love it, I like this activity and the sensation I have from it. It's not an usual sensation, a strange -like but pleasure pain. However I know that not all women enjoy it so it's different from person to person. Also I never had a lasting injury or a torn, I guess I'm lucky or we were been careful with this. If you have a wide partener then you are likely to have pains from the first time and I strongly recommend you not to take the entire lenght because the pain is going to be unbearable and you're going to have bad stomach pains in the next morning... You should take it all easily if you are curious what it is like or you're going to enjoy this activity... Also, as brigittekey said, you might use some lubrication for at least the first time to reduce the risk of tearing and lower the pain. Talk to your partner, few inches for the first time is going to be more than enough, and with time you're going to get used to it.

 

Moreover do not try to have a quick penetration!!! I have had this unpleasant moment one day when my partner was trying to penetrate me and slipped. He fell on me and that was the worst experience and pain I ever had. I have had no lasting damage but I was so upsed we didn't had sex for a week! Moreover I have heard that anal sex can actually cause someone to damege or even to lose their bowel function... Nothing like this happened to me. In my opinion you should do something extremely abnormal for something like this to happen. I'm just saying that you have to be careful with this.

 

The wide b*tt whole you see in porn movies it's really exaggerating! Of course some a gaping is produced due to the penetration, but it's closing right back within minutes so you shouldn't think that you're going to have something like that what is showing in porn movies. The sphincter naturally tightens after anal sex.

The last thing I have noticed about it. I noticed that anal sex can be a great cure for diarrhea. I know... It sounds gross and very strange, but it's true. I never had a diarrhea during my active sexual anal life. Certainly you won't do it if you have a severe case but if you do it when it's starting then it is going to go away... That's how it was for me. Good luck, enjoy it and be careful with this!

 

[Andoult]

I don't know much of this but this is like a hobby in our sexual time so my fiance and I are doing it once in a while, about once in a week but no more than about 6 times a month, I don’t really know the number. That's because I can't do it every day or else I will get a little sore and I can have a bit of pain afterwards, that is why we usually wait at least a couple days to do it again. My fiance doesn’t have a problem with that. I don't really know if this is the cause but I never haven't had any bad effects from anal sex. Well, in my opinion it depends from person to person becase everyone is different but it also depends on what you do during it, because if you have rough anal sex and if you use dildos or other sexual toys on a regular basis then you possible can have some. I found out that you can stretch it out a lot if you want to do it. I think that you just have to try and see if it keeps you comfortable, if it doesn't I wouldn't do it.

 

[tameeka]

Hello, in fact, there are something you can to do to avoid any risks of anal sex but you have to remember one thing and to keep in mind but the whole anal intercourse (at least for the first few times): All the things you're doing have to be taken very and very slowly so your muscles can get used to it. This is because you are lowering the risk of having damage. I mean that the more tears you have the more chances of having some damages to your anus. Let me give you some recommendations and hope they will help you in your further sexual life if you want to try this kind of sex. Well the first thing you have to do before you start having anal sex you should make sure that you have lubricant and condoms and in the case your partner is going to use fingers he should make sure that his nails are clipped and the best also are washed properly. The next thing is to make sure that you apply lubricant to the pain as well as to the anus. So here you go, when he enters you, you have to make sure that he goes slowly and right when you start to feel some discomfort have him to stop but I would recommend not to pull out because in few seconds the muscles of your anus should relax and tire out and then you can continue because it should be ok. It case it gets too painful you can stop for few minutes and then give it another try. To be almost 100% sure that everything is going to be ok I recommend you to try a position where you're on top so you can control the process a little better, he doesn't know everything, he doesn't feel the pain you do. After your muscles are relaxed and you got used to it, later you can try other positions as well and check if everything is ok. I really hope this information is going to help you and you won't have any accidents. Try to avoid everything that can damage your health. Do everything as written and maybe you're going to love this kind of sex, who knows? Good luck and take care of you.

 

[Anne K.]

Hello there everyone! Bried I see that you know something about this, can we talk privately? Here is what I’m thinking about, if you have some time, please write me back. My husband loves very much anal sex and I don’t really have problems with that so we have tried it several times in the last few months. He is very gentile to me and he is doing everything what I’m telling him and that is why it’s not a big problem in pleasing him. In the beginning I didn’t want to have anal sex but later he convinced me. First few times it was pretty painful but as he listens to me. everything was fine. Later I’ve noticed that I’m having the best orgasms ever with anal sex and now I love doing it too but I have one concern and that is why I decided to ask other people who knows a little more about this than me. Well, we practice anal sex about 5 or even 6 times per month. My question is: will that cause my anus to get loose? I’m asking that because I’m afraid that later I won’t be able to control the gas and / or even pooping and as you can understand this may be a real problem. Is there any risk that it can happen? If yes, do you know a method avoiding it besides to stop doing anal sex? Please write me back when you can.