so i am 23 years old female and i start having sex since 17 years but i cannot have an orgasm! in these 6 years i've had 2 parteners and neither of them made me feel an orgasm but i dont think that this is because of them. i am not really sure, but probably i've had it once. whenever i feel like im going to have an orgasm, it never comes out and i get disappointed and really frustrated. i don't understand what is my problem because i'm generally healthy and my vagina is always wet during sex. i've noticed that when we have sex i try staying in the mood, but i just can't, the feeling of being turned on always disappears. what excites me the most is when my boyfriend is having oral sex with me, i think this isn't normal, it shouldn't be like that. i've tried watching porn while having sex but nothing worked out and i still can't orgasm. i am thinking maybe some sex toys would help me or there are specific medications for this kind of problems? i really want to get some answers and I would be very thankful if someone can help. women who passed thru this, what is the best method of reaching an orgasm?